"When you suffer a loss, you wonder how you'll get thru it. You think it just hurts so bad and you want the pain to stop almost at any cost. you think OMG, how can I cope? Even when you know down deep that you will someday laugh again, love again, maybe be happy again, you know you will never be the same again. These major events change you forever, for better or for worse, which is our choice to make, whether we'll be better people after this suffering, or worse....But my biggest regret is how much time I wasted on trying to get my old life back; it's gone. It cannot ever be the same again. So you have to adapt to what IS, and make the best of that, whatever it is, and move forward trying to create a good life in the aftermath of a terrible loss...but trying to get back what is gone, or can never be the same again, is such a waste of time. Definitely my biggest regret of lost time and energy I could have put to creating something good, and beautiful instead of looking back at what once was but cannot be the same again... Deal with the new reality and accept it. Create what you can from what you still have..." the end
Wow! I think that will strike a chord with all of us!
