well I'm working hard at detaching.Haven't called or texted w in a couple weeks.Actually I called today to discuss some joint debt.She says she is still considering not divorcing and just living apart and not dealing with each other anymore.She asked if she could take kids on vacation for a week with her sister.I asked where and she just said a friends vacation house.I know its the oms house when she said that the friend wont be there.Its still f***ing killing me.I feel like telling her no way.I dont know what to do.I spoke with her family last week when they stopped by my house.I didnt say anything about w.they started though by saying shes crazy and doesn't know what shes doing.I said thanks.I wonder sometimes if she does know what shes doing?