Hello,

I've never posted on this board before. But, I've been separated now for over a year. My H left and is living in our camper about 12 miles away. I have a gf who's H once did the same thing. She says that it's the homing instincts, if there ever was such a thing. I still cry just about every day, but I've got my own life now, just not a happy and exciting one. I miss him terribly.

Anyway, he's still paying the electric, the phone, the Internet, the property taxes, and the house insurance, my car payment and the car insurance ... almost everything. But he is almost completely dark. He's been known to sneak home at times, when I was not here, but it's been awhile since I've had any proof. I just wanted to see if there is anyone else on this board in the same or similar situation? And what do you think about it?

I see there are some familiar names on this board. Please, you know who you are. It's just a couple of simple innocent questions. I mean no harm and want no harm. I just would like to know if you are in a similar situation.

Thank you in advance,
poet