I do hope you let the anger go. I have reason to believe my W could be having an EA and I was pretty jealous yesterday. I woke up with a different perspective. Forgiveness in my heart for what my wife has done and what may come to be in my sitch. Letting go of the anger feels good. And like Sandi said, the OM means nothing to you. He is nothing a zero.. but your W means a lot. I wish you all the luck in the world fighting for your R.