I can understand and relate to being afraid. Can you expand a bit on what is making you feel so frightened and maybe we can help?
One suggestion I have (and this is JMO) is an attny is there to guide you through the legal process, protect you and make sure you get all you are entitled to. While its always a bonus if they are supportive and emotionally available to help with the process, their job is to navigate and practice law. Of course find an attny you are comfortable with but an attny wont be a counselor and if they are, your bill will rack up awfully fast.
I know this is scary. My gosh I know. Trust me, I was so scared I ended up giving myself a panic disorder and I dont say that in jest - I was so terrified I drove myself to a complete mental breakdown but we wont let that happen to you.
Right now I am officially typing out all our agreements for my attny and it feels like poo. I get it.
Can you help us understand why you feel frightened and really break it down? I will stay on the computer for a while if you need to talk!
