Yes, I get it, he told me this morning that his account is overdrawn and he needs to pay that and he will give me the difference which will pay the w&p bill and a couple hundred extra.
I get what you're saying but this is not inconsistent with how things were when we were together. We have been strapped for so long.
My biggest frustration is that now, not only are we struggling as usual, but we are having to pay for two households; which of course is why some people choose not to do this separation thing when they can't afford it!
Anyway, looking at the past months bank statements, it seems on the up and up. I have no reason to suspect he is savvy enough to think I am checking those...
Again, this is how we lived before and it continues. In way over our heads and always struggling to catch up.
I know I need to do something about it. But, like I said, we will have to move.
