Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Right or wrong here's what I did today. Arrived home from work and H starts the lovey-dovey stuff and I couldn't take it. I told H that an emotional affair is not acceptable in our M. He denied having an affair. I explained the definition of an emotional affair to him (giving his emotions to someone other than myself, his wife). I told him I was aware of the pet name he is now using for her. H denied it repeatedly. The accusations started, which I ignored for the most part. H continued to deny, defend, accuse etc... I left. Maybe not what I am supposed to do, but I felt I had to.

I get out of my massage and received a text from H. I'm thinking "oh God, here we go." H asked if I wanted to join him at the tattoo place to watch him get his tattoo cause they hadn't started yet. ????????

I have not yet responded. I'm thinking a response of "thank you but I won't be able to make it.