I truly believe that working at keeping the atmosphere "relaxed" and if possible...fun, is the secret. I know it's hard to have fun when things are not good in a R, but that's where watching funny movies and things like that can help bring a laugh. However, not talking about the R will help the WAS more than anything. If the S is tensed up b/c of thinking you are going to spring a R talk any moment.....that causes a lot of tension. It's kind of getting their trust that they can relax and enjoy the peace & quite when they are with their LBS.




It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!