Misshim, I haven't posted to your thread before, but I just have to respond to this:

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There are some really great men out there, that love and enjoy their children.

Yes, there are, and my H was one. We raised and enjoyed 2 children together, saw them through college, and now they are on their own. And so am I.

There are no guarantees.

M 65
H 64
T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08
Two Ds

Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man