Thanks. I need help toning down my response but don't want to get walked over either. So looking at your post am I to understand that it ok for her to be irrational in the way she request something from me or responds to me and that I should just ignore her hoopla.
I'm trying to establish some livable boundries for myself and be resonable with her. She has talk up the 50/50 legal side in the past but when I try to get some close to that she alway reverts back to the money.
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Do you think the message you just sent put you closer to or farther away from that?
Farther...but it seem like everything does , thats why I have not been responding back to her on anything, ecept the kids.
Please understand most of her text was poppy cock. She told D 6 6 weeks ago she was going to buy her a cell phone. Never happened. She said she would visit evey other weekend with them and give me a break. She has offer to help out financial with D 14 marching band requirements. None of it has happened . It all about convience to her.
My response didn't seem to jabby to me, but I'm here to learn. I guess I'm still trying to understand what she wants exactly.
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