Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

well, I have spent some time on the phone talking with H this afternoon....about our son and tkd....we werent arguing just giving opinions basically. He thinks we should keep our son in the class. Maybe just cut back to once a week. He thinks it helps him with alot of other things, self control, preserverance, strength. Helps in baseball even.

I agree that it can help....but I think other activities can help that too. He hates that so much time and money has been wasted on it for him to quit.

He mentioned maybe just continuing through the summer, till school starts. Or just the once a week. He has told me that the decision is up to me though. I said it should be up to our son....he thinks our son isnt old enough to make the decision.

He was on his way to therapy and Ihope it helps him some today, he soooo needs it. Maybe he will discuss this with his therapist and get her opinion. Of course she will probably side with him...he does pay her!

But, Im not sure going to tkd once a week would be good. Its not enough for him to learn and keep up...also the class is becoming so big that there is little time for one on one attention or help.

At least it was a nice discussion and no arguing. Of course that is always how we handled stuff when we were together....we always discussed stuff...hardly ever argued about things.

We do try to play nice.

Most days.