A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[K4D]

Example: Our 15th wedding anniversary is coming up in about 6 weeks. I would really love to be with H then in some capacity or other. Whether it's a movie on the couch, a date, a walk on the beach with the kidlet, a casual lunch - or even pleasepleaseplease, a super romantic dinner date for just the two of us.

My anniversary is in 2 weeks. W is going to get a card with a pic of my daughters and it will be about them and what that day gave to us. I expect nothing in return.

Hope for the future is what you keep. Expectations get thrown out the window so you don't disapoint yourself when something you do doesn't get the reaction you are looking for or hoping for. keep hope and patience. Expect nothing. Be happy when something occurs. If you expect nothing, it will be that much more pleasant when something happens and if nothing happens, you won't be disapointed.

Don't live your life for your S. Live your life for God and for you and your kids if you have any. I haven't read your whole stich.

Its a long road. Don't take temperature checks right now. Infact, don't take them until you see something that happily surprsises you. Even then, take it with a grain of salt until it becomes more common and more to it.

Kevin