I totally agree w/her - DO NOT SEND THAT LETTER! Once again, your focus is on your W - what will win her back, what she will notice, etc.
Even your comment about weightlifting was centered around your W - that your D commented that your W likes some guy w/muscles. Lift weights or whatever, because it's for you, good for you, etc. WAW's want what they can't have, and you keep making it crystal clear that she can have you back whenever she wants. That's why it' about YOU, and what's good for YOU and your daughters.
All these months and we're still telling you the same stuff. That's why I needed a break. CG's thread has some very good stuff on it, glad to see you're over there checking it out.
