How do you DB when spouse is not around to interact with, and friends (who think they are "helping") are working against you???
Thought of calling Divorce Coach. Is it too late for that???
Undomiel,
Remeber, you're spouses friends want her to stop hurting, not necessarily what's good for the two of you. And the OW has only her own interests in mind obviously.
It's never too late to try. I had my first Coaching session a few weeks ago, and it was definitely worthwhile. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.