Add a couple more books to your list to read - The Benefits of Staying Married and Stop Blaming Start Loving.
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My H says he wants to come home, he insists that he does. His behavior is contradicting his words however. I'm not really sure how to take that.
Let him know that actions speak louder than words. Regardless of what he says, are you still sure you're done and don't want him back home?

Those reality breaks are wonderful! Enjoy!

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.