Hi Beepee. I know the roller coaster ride is rough, but I admire that you keep fighting forward.

I just wanted to let you know it was a good thing they talked salary and benefits at the end of the interview. Just an FYI - any government job takes way longer to process anyone and actually make the job offer than you can ever imagine.

Don't assume you haven't gotten it until you hear it directly. Be patient.

Good that you had some communication with H. But now, right now, focus on you. Let him initiate the contact.

Don't push for MC or ask him too many questions. Let him do some learning and growing just like you are doing. He can't give you any answers right now because he hasn't figured them out yet.

Keep progressing. You are clinging to the future and that is good. Check out two books I recommend - Dr Phillip C McGraw's Life Strategies, and Steven K Scott's The Richest Man Who Ever Lived. Both books will help you get control of your life and look forward to a much brighter future.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.