Balance on the praise issue is hard. Giving it is a 180 for me, so I should do it. But pursuing is counter-productive, so I shouldn't do it. Easy to see why this DB stuff provokes hair-tearing.
But - thank you for the caution, and I will be careful with it.
Re: the LL book - It will most likely be my next used book purchase or library read.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
