I just ignored my wife’s text yesterday afternoon, but got this one later in the day. (You seem like your purposely keeping D 6 busy so that I can't see her. I've talked to you before about having her call me and I just get one call from her yesterday. I haven't seen her since last friday. Your hurting me, but also hurting her in the long run. Your trying to be the fun parent. This is not fair to me or her when I have made myself avaliable and u repeatly deny me. I am her mother.)
My purposed response not sent yet. (It’s unfortunate you feel that way. We are not sitting around. It's their summer vacation and yes they are busy. On Tuesday I requested you to give me a couple of days advance notice if you would like to see them. It’s not fair for you to think you can just pop in or call a few hours before you want to see the kids and then expect them to be available. This needs to stop, because the kids and myself have established a structured way of living. Please share your schedule with me. I will then work something out around my schedule so you can visit. As far as me having D 6 call you, give me a break. When was the last time you called her and left her a message or sent her a text?........ Why didn’t you return her call Saturday or all those time in the past? ……….. I cannot bear to see the hurt in her eyes and disappointment on her face each time she calls and only gets your voice mail. I’m not being hurtful to D 6.)
What do you think?
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
