Well now the elephant is out of the room, so to speak. So glad that you both are talking more. I think if I do get remarried, I will try to make a point of every couple of weeks "taking a reading" of how we are. You know use it as a time to address issues and even what one is happy about.
I am so glad things are working out for you both. Happy painting and such!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory