jeez' peace you said it so well. they do seem to get worse - or more distant. and yes i think you are right. Trustings x just keeps thinking she is her old self.. but she is a strong vibrant woman now!!
T- i don't know about ur state, just mine. he will have to "prove" the lower income and if you lived here it would have to be a SIGNIGANT (sp??) change.
Something I have been working on is this... remember WHO your true PROVIDER is ok? i know I know I know how hard it is. Just try and remember that HE promises to not leave us or forsake us. HE promises to provide our needs.. and I BELIEVE He will!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again