B/c you are worried what HE will say/do in response. The questions is whether a given comment/action is right FOR YOU. To he!! with what H might think or do. As long as you are doing the right thing for you, his reaction doesn't matter. Work on detaching and this will come.
Yes. This, exactly.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
