Don't talk about the relationship. It is a great sign that she is calling to go. Leave it at that. As far as the anniversary goes, like 25 and faithfulH told me. Get a card and have a picture of your kids in it and say that you just wanted to recognize the day for what it has brought you and your W as they would be around had it not been for you to getting together and bringing them into the world. Then leave it at that. Expect nothing in return.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...