Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
B/c you are worried what HE will say/do in response. The questions is whether a given comment/action is right FOR YOU. To he!! with what H might think or do. As long as you are doing the right thing for you, his reaction doesn't matter. Work on detaching and this will come.


GIMA - I think I'm actually getting better with not worrying about his response, to an extent. I worry about doing/saying the wrong thing in relation to working toward my goal of saving my M. Just like this morning and my response to not texting him back yesterday. Sometimes it feels like I keep tripping over my own feet.


Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10