Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

Hi Sanderika! My evenings went pretty good too! Didnt do alot, I did watch a movie with the kids one night.

I have to tell you of the events of last night though with my H.

I didnt hear from him alot yesterday. I went to church, he texted hi a couple of times through the day.

About 10 last night he sent me a text. It said "ok well I think Im gonna say good night and put an end to this f***ing boring A@@ day! Then another followed "I guess your busy so good night"

Ok, first off, he never talks to me like quite like that, I dont speak to him like that either. All I did was reply Good night after I recieved those 2 texts. Then he come back with "oh, now you answer". Then "nevermind" and then "night". I decided to text him back. Probabaly shouldnt have, but I was ill that he thought he could talk to me like that. I told him that I wonder it he talks that nice to all his friends, or just me? He texted back "i do". THen he said he had just had a boring day. I asked him why was it different than any other sunday, he then told me that it was because he didnt get out of bed until 7:30 that night! I told him that it was his fault. He agreed and then apologized for bothering me and talking ugly to me. I said that it was ok, and I hoped tomorrow would be a better day for him. Then said good night. He replyed "sure, night".

He has had quite a weekend. He keeps wondering why I dont talk as much to him anymore. He is bored to tears. I dont know why, there were things he could do if he wanted to.

He even called me at lunch today just to talk I assume, but I had a customer and had to cut it short.

He has therapy today. Maybe thats a good thing, who knows. Sometimes it is and sometimes it isnt. I just have to figure out how and when to tell him we are not going to tkd tonight. My son does NOT want to do it anymore. Im thinking about just sending him a text saying that son still doesnt want to go back. Any suggestions???