Well done for trying with H.. snuggling up, reaching out etc. I dont get the lack of intimacy either.. I know you already asked him before and he just says its not that important to him (BS, its been 8/9 months ????).. but what if you asked him again and if he shrugs it off say, I dont believe you, is there something else going on, or are you unable to talk to me about it?? It just doesnt add up.
It must be hard to consider your childrens feelings, I have no advice on that score, but sending you a big hello... Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread