Wife said she's done update

[whereami]

W was at our house when I got home from work Sunday. My oldest S called me when I was leaving work saying that mom was home watching tv in our room. What's even stranger is that she hasn't slept in our room in over a month.

I had already made plans to help S run a couple of errands after I got off work. After I took care of S I went to a friends house to watch a fight he recorded the previous week. I got home a little after eleven, and W was asleep in our bed. Part of me wanted to sleep in another room, but everything I have read says don't move out of the bedroom, so I slept in our bed.

After I woke up I asked her if she plans on staying at the house and she said she would like to. I told her that would be a good idea considering the kids will be home soon. She says that she doesn't want to fight with me anymore, and I told her I agreed and didn't want to fight with her either.

I had to leave before she did and as I was walking out door W came up to me and gave me and says she wants to call a truce. I said that sounds good and put my hand out to shake hers, and she grabbed me and hugged me, and the kissed me.

Part of me was thinking, this is not a good idea, but still let it happen. I have been longing for female companionship, and considered taking calling in late to work, but decided not to.

I also don't want to send the wrong message to her either. I know this is the best possible outcome that the kids could hope for.

I'm glad she's at home, but I know that nothing has been resolved. I want to tell her that if she is wanting a relationship me that things will have to change. I'm just not sure that I'm 100% into the marriage.

I guess the best thing is to just sit back and watch and not have any expectations from any of this. I will not tolerate the same treatment that she has been giving me the past seven weeks. I'm not sure what kind of boundaries I can or should set to make sure this moves in a positive direction.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks
Paul