I realize it is still disrespectful that she is doing this and I also realize she may not even realize it is anything but innocent flirtation (btw it's the same guy and they are buddies from college). I thought about this a lot later today and I realize that at least right now I have to be the compassionate, detatched husband that just needs to work on himself. I very much want to keep the communication door open. And right now that is a more pressing problem than this possible EA. I haven't heard from her in 3 weeks and I asked her via text if I had mail there. I am sure I do. In fact my workplace mailed a paycheck to that address while I was gone on business. I can only hope that it is actually in the process of being forwarded since i sent that form in over a week ago if she isn't going to talk to me even about logistical matters. So yah um.. me getting paid is more important than focusing on what might be or might not be. I am not trying to assume what she is thinking but it looks like she is in full on escape mode.
Anyway, basically I do feel better about it today.
