H is upset that I "haven't taken his concerns seriously" about my "insecurities and self-esteem issues." Yes, I'm a shy, quiet person- nothing wrong with that since I live productive life. But that is not a sufficient reason to start "Social Anxiety" meds. I was Paxil before for general anxiety when H threatened divorce several years ago. He claims that I was "more willing to try new things" when i was on it (i.e., swinging). Actually, it was the desperation, not the meds.
Classic manipulation. In fact, I think it could be used as an example in Psychology 101.
Originally Posted By: Kettricken
I defy you to find one man (or woman) on this board who thinks you're out of line for having a problem with this.
Sorry, sister, but I want to slap your husband to China myself. He wants you to take anti-anxiety meds so you can be comfortable with swinging, not for you, only for him?
I know this is a pro-marriage board and all ... but in the immortal acronym of Dan Savage, DTMFA. Save yourself.
ABSOLUTELY! I think most of us would LOVE to slap your H.
Spybunny - Please, please, please THINK! You do not deserve to be treated like this.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
