Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thank you SD. I particularly like the image of OW as a nasty band-aid. It’s always good to be able to smile even when you’re in the thick of things.

S and I went to church last night. It was nice to be back, even S commented on it. Church is the first thing I am going to change for myself.

I called my work’s employee assistance program today and got the name of a counselor. I expressly requested one that believes M’s are worth saving.

I never did call H yesterday. Spoke with H this morning. He said he was concerned. I pointed out if he was that concerned he could have phoned me yesterday. H said he was “feeling me out” by text. Whatever.

Sticky sitch. I wrote on FB “taking it one day at a time, no more, no less.” My friend (the one wrote my H the e-mail regarding H's behavior)wrote “taking one ball at a time….lol” (She had written in her e-mail to H if it were her, she would have super-glued one of his balls to his leg. )H is ticked, wrote a text to me about it last night: “How about removing that rude comment by (name) off of FB before the nieces and nephews see that…and tell (name) to f**k off!” H spoke about it this morning - I said I don’t believe the nieces or nephews will know what it means. H said they would since some of them were asking S who H was talking to on the phone while at his parents house. H also said he wrote my friend a nasty e-mail.

So, my dear new friends, what to do, what to do.