Am I lazing out???? H and I have been SO busy that reading has taken a back-seat. The progress we've made is:
1) I've been initiating sometimes but in a more enthusiastic way rather than showing up naked to make HIM initiate. I think it is important to let H know that I am interested in being SEXY too.
2) After ML, he ejaculated fairly quickly after we had intercourse but still seemed interested in continuing ... so afterwards spoke to him gingerly about how I wasn't sure about how his "equipment" works b/c I wasn't sure if he could continue or wanted to etc. and he explained that his orgasms sometimes aren't really strong so it allowed me to CAREFULLY bring up PE (w/o using that phrase b/c I didn't want to freak him out) and about how I would like to help him work through this for both of us b/c it would help us having a more full sexual relationship and allow us to be closer through sex. Of course, since he's such a NICE GUY he's on board and he actually said that he appreciated me talking about this even though it is difficult and he is sometimes very awkward in the conversation. I asked him to please take charge of this particular topic b/c I didn't feel like it would be good for either of us if I was the one giving him instructions. It seemed like it would be damaging for both of us.
So that's what's new. I printed out Bagheera's post about his PE issues and will share that with H (I'll tell him I found it somewhere on the internet...).
