Yep. He said it's just another day. He doesn't want or need anything. He'll work on his birthday on Friday and then I guess leave for the lake that evening.
Our oldest son works until 9 pm on Fridays. The youngest son leaves for church youth camp Sunday night so I'm hoping he'll come back in time to see him off!
I guess we can celebrate it Thursday night. It's just so weird. I'd planned on cooking him a very nice dinner Friday night etc. I'd even taken a half day of vacation on Friday! Guess I'll just use that time to work on the house.
After my stupid "I'm sorry" this morning. He said "You don't have anything to be sorry about." So who knows where his head is at?! Guess I'll just have to wait and see how he acts towards me tonight when I get home from working out.
There are no groceries in the house so I plan on getting out and getting that taken care of. It will at least get me out of the house.
Hindsight is 20-20 as they say but I guess my expectations were unrealistic but it seemed like you thought that we'd probably talk about everything when I got home from vacation as well. I guess I've learned he's still not in his "right mind" and I'm just going to have to be very careful and stay the course!
Who knows - maybe he's upset that I went down to the lake with my friends? He made the comment - you went to the lake for your birthday weekend.
I hadn't looked at the phone records in awhile. This through me back into looking. He did talk to our "friend" for a half hour on 6/13 when I went down to the lake by myself and then the following Wednesday on 6/17 for 64 minutes before I saw the phone call on my son's birthday on 6/29 for 59 minutes.
Nothing on the records since then. That was all before my vacation.
He did say that he meant what he said (phone call on vacation) that he thinks it's better to work on the marriage vs. being divorced for a lot of reasons (financially, kids, etc) he said no one wants to be divorced.
I don't know - I'm just going to have to take it one day at a time again. I think I just got my hopes up and thought he was to a place where he actually wasn't. If that makes sense.
