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Can't do anything right in W eyes these days. Looked up transactions and questioned a few and the gloves came off. Fun morning.


So what? Was it "the right thing to do?" Are you controlling and micromanaging, or were they legitimate questions about the family's finances?

If you're looking for her approval at this stage, you're not only going to be sorely disappointed, but you'll probably even start doing the WRONG things, just to please her.

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They were legit questions. And I know nothing I do is right in her eyes at this point. I expected it to piss her off.


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If they were legit questions, then don't sweat it.

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I know in her eyes I was micromanaging. More than anything I was coming here to vent, cuz she pissed me off and I couldn't show her that. wink


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A momentary moment of clarity. W admitted to getting upset at me and then realizing she was out of line. She appologized for it and I never even knew about it! Then while talking to me she kept referring to the D with it's not when's.


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A momentary moment of clarity. W admitted to getting upset at me and then realizing she was out of line. She appologized for it and I never even knew about it! Then while talking to me she kept referring to the D with it's not when's.


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I have a question I need a answer to. I know the general rules is not to snoop around, BUT, if one does find some info, I.e. Little love notes, is it best to not confront, or do you confront? Or do you callOM and threaten to tear his nuts off?


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Back away from his nuts.

Big debate here on the confront/not confront. Others better than me could answer that.

But, if you decide to confront, I think you confront W, not OM. Of course, if OM is married, his W should know - again, big debate on that issue though.


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GIA, I was thinking fishing bait.

OM is single.

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OK. I like the fish bait idea. To quote the late, great Jackie Gleason, "You can think about it. Just...don't...do...it."

Seriously, before you confront W, how solid is your proof? It needs to be pretty solid.

What will confronting your W do? Will it push her further away? If so, can you handle that?


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