I don't trust anything she says in regards to the marriage. All she's saying is "alimony this and alimony that". For one, alimony should be temporary at best. She can get her own education and make her own money. Even if she didn't cheat you don't owe her payments for the rest of her life. If she wanted that, she should be staying with you and making a go at it. I think she'll be nice and say the right things as long as she thinks it'll get her alimony from her sugar daddy. Doesn't it concern you at all that she only talks about that? It's like dating a girl that only talks about wanting to find a rich husband. I find it a turn-off. My wife only wanted gone...she didn't have interest in being supported...yours only has interest in the $$$$
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer