Thanks, folks! Good to have new posters. Welcome to my life Kerry! I was hugging blast walls and eating the gravel during mortar attacks and she wanted my Military ID so she and Smarmeister could get a Veteran's discount on the Jeep he was leasing for my D17.
Another weekend of STBX trying to be CONTROLLING. It's so weirts. She's the one who wanted out, but can't stop contacting me over stupid stuff.
I went to a wedding this weekend with GymWoman out of state. It was my weekend with D17 and S11. Weeks ago, I asked D17 if she would stay with S11 so I could attend this wedding. I told her I would give her my car, apartment and money. I would also pay her to look after S11. Other than the eating disorder issue, she is highly responsible.
On Thursday, STBX sends me an email syaing she didn't think it was safe, and what if D17 and S11 got into an accident. (Well, it would be the same if they got into an accident and I WAS at home, except it would take me two hours to get to a hospital).
STBX unilaterally decides that S11 and D17 would stay with her, and then says she want to "trade a weekend with me". I did not respond at all.
I did nothing illegal. She unilaterally as usual, makes a decision and then asks me to pay a penalty. I did not even respond.
Gypsy: Your right! UGLY times at the Smarmy/STBX house.