I guess I mistakenly thought that we should talk about things when I got home. One of his comments last night was - when were we going to have time to talk I was working until 7 or 8 pm every night!?
I know.....like I said, I am the exact same way! It is soooo hard not to get into the dicussion but then we take it over, right? Well, I seem to, anyway.
If he asks about the "talk" again, tell him it's up to himand you're ready to listen to whatever he wants to say.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!