I guess so. It'll just be my list though - there will be no talking about it with him.
I got the message clear from him that he just wants each of us to work on what we need to work on and take it one day at a time.
So that's what I'm going to do. No more expectations (I set myself up every time!). I'm going to just keep doing the work I've been doing on myself and keep pushing forward.
I still don't know what to do about this birthday?!