Do you know "why" she called at that time in the wee hours of the morning and then didn't have anything to say??? She used the excuse that you were mad and she'd call you later. Wow! Who wouldn't be angry at getting a unneccessary phone call at that time of morning? She is so immature it's pitiful! Josh, don't you see that she was checking in on you? And, just like a silly teenager, she turns that thing around everytime to try to make you look like the bad guy who is angry. Well....you SHOULD be angry!
Don't you see that she's wanting you to "beg" her to come over and see you? When you don't fall for that little pitch, then she goes on & on.......no wonder you are getting tired of it all. It's stupid and you're too old to be playing these high school games. I think you're getting turned off by her immaturity (at last).
When you are tired.....and especially when you've been drinking.....you judgment is impaired! The best thing is not to have any contact with her when you are in that condition. Oh, and the thing about her not coming Wednesday and making it another day......that was a little test there to see how you would react to that piece of news. No sweat.
I don't know that what you're feeling means that you are through and ready to move on. I think the "anger" is simply another stage that you have entered. Anger may help you to keep from getting suckered into some of her little traps. Be aware!
Maybe you should put your phone on voice mail and let that take care of her calls. I kind of like the idea of not talking to her until she's ready to work on the R. That might start her to thinking that playing these games won't work. Not that I think she's ready to stop playing....yet. But it makes a statement about "you" and how you feel about this silliness.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
