I will be honest with you, its the intimacy. Not just the sex, but the closeness. I have been to two parties recently. One was without her, and there were couples there who were acting like couples, getting each other drinks, talking to others as a couple, just generally enjoying each other's company. The other party she was there for. This time, couples were hugging and cuddling around an outdoor fireplace, while my W was hanging out with her 20 year old niece and I sat alone. I want so desperately to reach out to her and hold her in my arms again. I want her to rest her head on my shoulder like she used to do. I want to cuddle under a blanket on the couch and watch "According to Jim" again. And yes, I want so much to climb in to bed with her and experience the closeness that only physical intimacy can bring. Ultimately, I know I can be patient, I think I am just in a funk right now. It's just that she's right there. We're not fighting. We get into bed together every night. I will get over it. I'll be back on track. Just looking for encouraging words to help get out of the funk Thanks for the reply I will re-read Micheles WAW article.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
