I really haven't been talking to him about the relationship until he called while my son and I were on vacation and said he didn't want to be divorced that he wanted to work on things.
I guess I mistakenly thought that we should talk about things when I got home. One of his comments last night was - when were we going to have time to talk I was working until 7 or 8 pm every night!?
I'm just really disappointed because I thought we were moving in a positive direction. Believe me - there will be no relationship talk coming from my mouth!
I think you should go ahead and schedule a time, but let HIM do all the talking. "So, I'm listening." His definition of "working on things" may or may not be genuine, and even IF genuine, it may or may not be the things that YOU need in order to feel safe in the relationship now.
