Thank you. I started reading last night & found a lot of meaning in just the introduction of the DB book! All I can say is WOW!

To answer 25yearsmlc:

How old are they? What if anything have you told them? What does your h SAY he wants now, if anything? Has anyone seen a lawyer, to your knowledge?


The kids are 13, 8, 7 (my girls), 5 (step son), & 18 months (our son). We sat them down before he moved out and tried our best to explain to them that we were having issues & needed a bit of a break from each other. It was a lot better than it may come off here.

My H says he wants to come home, he insists that he does. His behavior is contradicting his words however. I'm not really sure how to take that.

I have not seen an attorney & he is adimant that he hasn't either.

H is gone out of town for the next 3 days on business so I'm hoping this is a break from reality that we both desperately need!


Distracted 1978
Me - 30
H - 28
D - 13, 8, 7
S - 21 months
SS - 6

My Bomb to him 10/26/2008
Separated (physically) 03/15/2009
Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009

No longer distracted!