Over the past 2 days my W has come to me and wanted to talk about R. She says that she wasn't sorry about the PA right after it happened, but realizes now how much she hurt me.
It seems to be always followed by,...but, I don't deserve to be punished for the rest of my life (no alimony due to PA) because of a stupid mistake that lasted 3 months.
She also is still insisting on D.
She also finally admitted that she has been blaming me for 100% of our problems and not taking responsbility for her part.
I mentioned to her during one of our R talks this weekend that I wasn't intersted in a D. I felt like she was rushing and we had lots of other options like MC, Retro ...etc.
She asked me when there was a Retro and I said not really sure what it is, but have heard good things about it.
I would like to go to her and have her agree to go but not sure the timing is right yet.
Any thoughts?
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
