Sandi, I really think I've been guilty of that one! I have been trying for a while to really listen before I think of the next thing to say.

I'm feeling pretty good about the progress we are making now. The dinner the other night made me realise that we have lots in common, that we really do have lots to talk about and we were pretty comfortable. I think this dinner was a real breakthrough because it was his decision and it was a pressure free evening but I have to admit patience is almost as big a challenge to me as shutting up!

What wonderful learning I am doing!