A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Whoah. I just did something major. I admitted my emotional affair to my mother. Casually, with regret about the affair but without guilt. Not because an EA doesn't deserve a whole crap-load of guilt, but because I've been down that long, miserable guilty road and I've finally forgiven myself for it. And somewhere along the line, I forgave H for his as well.

But re: my mother - it's not fair to H to let him take all the heat (at least in my parents' eyes) for a big, narsty PA with my best friend when I strayed myself.