I defy you to find one man (or woman) on this board who thinks you're out of line for having a problem with this.

Sorry, sister, but I want to slap your husband to China myself. He wants you to take anti-anxiety meds so you can be comfortable with swinging, not for you, only for him?

I know this is a pro-marriage board and all ... but in the immortal acronym of Dan Savage, DTMFA. Save yourself.

"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert