hey, try to remember when you found out. how long did it take for that initial shock to pass? for me, I was depressed for 2 weeks, and then still took a while to forgive.

so time will help heal, you just continue to DB as before. act as if she will forgive you,

don't let her reactions change your reactions.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."