The DB two step

[Dr LOve]

I am starting a now thread becasue I know the other is going to lock at any moment....

It’s Me Doc……….Remember me?????

Well I am a little afraid to post because things are going good.
Been doing a lot of work outside and being Portuguese I tan really easy. (Could never figure out people paying to go to a tanning booth).
Anyway I am not really sure why but I did take my wedding ring off a few weeks ago. Partly because of my tanning I did not what to have the “He took his ring off” white mark in my finger. I am kind of at a point that if my marriage ends I don’t want to be “marked” for awhile. But I am not planning on it ending I am a little indifferent about it right now.
So with that said I had the best Anniversary in 2 years. I did not fret about getting W a present instead I got her card and 10 red roses (from me) and 10 pink roses (from son) to equal the 20 years we have been together.
We went to San Fran. For the day. Started out at Alcatraz Island. The “tour” lasted 4 hours (seemed like 10 mins) walking around I took every opportunity to put my arm around wife and though her arm when she had her hand in her pocket. I had son take a picture of wife and I and instead of just standing next to her this time I put my arm around her. While we were on the island I did notice she had put her wedding rings back on for this trip.
Later we had a fabulous lunch / dinner on fisherman’s wharf and then went to the wax museum and to Riplies Believe it or not. (Holding hands for about 2 blocks)When we got home I kissed her and thanked her for the beautiful day.
I know I have tried many things but what I think is working is what I want to call the ‘DB two step”. You see in the past I would take two steps forward and come on too strong and wife would send me three steps back.
So what I am doing now is taking two steps forward and then stepping back one….
Like I left the picture of wife and I on the mirror in the bathroom the other morning with the caption. “What a cute couple…Lets get back together” but did not say anything else about it until evening and then I Joked about it and she laughed. I have found that My W is not a morning person so NO R TALK IN THE MORNING. I have even been able to joke with her Sexually. In the past she would just get into a bad mood kind of “Mad” at me.
This morning I put the rubber ducks I bought awhile ago when I was going to do the “Bubble Bath thing” (Remember?). On the bathroom sink with her name on them. Tonight I am going to asked if she liked the ducks. I will tell her they are for when she trusts ME again I will give her that Bubble bath I was going to give her….
As for work??? Nothing yet. I am took this class that has a test that tells you what you should do for a living.. I came back with….Political manager, Marketing Personnel, sales Agent, Journalist, Actor, Computer Systems Analyst, Mortgage Broker, Physician, Urban Planner, Entrepreneur, Prosthetic assistant and last Public relations
Still trying to find a retraining program that will help pay for the Computer systems analyst classes I want to take.
well got ta go.. Son wants to go swimming.. IT’S 9:00 at NIGHT…. it’s 62 Degrees out side but the pool is about 75

Night
Doc