The drinking has subsided - at least as far as I have seen - to a point where it's a non-issue for me. I think it was situational both times, and I think he may have finally admitted there was a problem, not only with frequency and amounts, but with his reason for drinking also (to dull pain). It may be something that we both have to keep tabs on in case there's a resurgence if things get bad again, but I'm willing to give this a go and see where it leads.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
