I'm going to try to keep the lines of communication open and improving. I sent her an email, as yet unreplied to
I'm still doing my DB kung-fu -- GALing and TCBing and whatnot -- for me (as usual).
I think I've actually been situationally depressed the last few days.
Hmmmm SP. Why on earth do you need to keep fighting to keep the lines of communication open. She abandoned YOU She abandoned the kids She abandoned the dog She abandoned her home She abandoned your future She rewrote your history
She lied lied lied and sdont you dare say you are surprised. Few of us here , whom have been in your wifes position have told you that lying is what us WAS do best.
The lines of communication will open up SP but I think go dark on her now, dont jump to her invites, dont answer her emails, text, smoke signals anything. She can communicate with kids or kid arrangements but thats all !!!!!!!!!!
You are just like my H and I treated him like your W treats you and you know what SP, when I decided that maybe H was not so bad after all - he had gone. He had had enough .So do your W a favour and back off. She might realise what she is losing and you are not going to continually be abused, to a point where you say enough.
Go dark for the families sake.
It is the one thing you have not tried. Believe me you will feel more sane.
