I'm new here, but from what I've read, separation doesn't mean the marriage is past saving. The whole point of DBing is that you can do it on your own even if the other person isn't presently willing to work on things. I've been separated for two years now and I'm just starting to work on it.
I'm terribly sorry for the pain and anger the affair has caused you. Please make sure you are doing some good self-care. You deserve it!
Cheers,
Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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