not to make light of your intial post on here, but I took particular notice of your DB name Arwen ...seems to me to be a Welsh name ..is it? ... just browsed a smidge of what you posted. The values the you live your life by and the one's I choose to are sorta perhaps polar opposites. I respect an individuals freewill to excercise that which God has granted them though so I will read up later to learn more of your sitch.
Ted
I am a huge Tolkien fan, hence the handle.
I believe God/Higher Power made me what I am, for reasons only S/He knows. I can no more change that than I can change the color of my eyes. Yes, I could "act" otherwise, same way I could wear colored contacts, but that would be not be honest.
The way I see it, my job here is to live my life as best I can with kindness, sensitivity, love, honor, honesty, fidelity, respect. Those are my "values", and they have nothing to do with my sexual orientation. :-) Somehow, I don't think your values are polar oppposites to mine.... ;-)
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
